Thursday, July 31, 2008

Summer Fashion on a Budget

by Jacqueline To

It’s time to hit the mall this summer to fill your closet with the latest chic trends of the season. Hot weather calls for sizzling fashion, from beautiful linen sun dresses to strikingly patterned bikinis. We’ll show you some must-have staples for the summer that won’t break your budget and help you create a fabulous outfit for under $100.


Colourful Linens

Linen is a wonderful fabric to wear during the summer because it is light and airy, very durable, comfortable, and does not attract lint. Colourful linen dresses, cuffed shorts, and baby doll tops add a seasonal touch to your everyday outfit.





Bright Coloured Patterns

Bright and bold patterns are very eye-catching and exude confidence. Pair a simple black cocktail dress with a patterned bangle or belt. It's best to purchase bold, patterned accessories because you can mix and match them with both a simpler outfit and something more exotic.




Sun Hats

Shown in Chick Advisor’s podcast “Where’d you get that?”, a wide brimmed sun hat looks great paired with summery outfits, but also protects you from harmful UV exposure and bad hair days.




Giant Sunglasses

Large framed sunglasses create a seamless look that will never go out of style. These glasses are a staple piece that draws attention, and having at least one pair is a must. Large sunglasses provide protection against harsh UV-rays and cover more skin around the eyes than sunglasses with a smaller frame. You can keep your skin looking healthy and wrinkle-free, and still look glamorous while you’re doing it.




Gladiator Sandals


Who would have thought that Greek and Roman style gladiator sandals would make a comeback in the 21st century? Unlike the ancient artifact, our version of the Gladiator sandal is stylish, comes in many different colours and materials, and is made for women too.

Tip: If you are tall, buy tall gladiator sandals that go no higher than the mid-section of your lower thigh to make your legs look leaner. If you are short, purchase gladiator sandals that go up no further than your ankle to accentuate your height.




Swimwear


Nowadays you don’t have to bear your belly in a bikini to feel hot at the beach or by the pool. A one-piece bathing suit is classy, flattering, and can be just as sexy. It covers up anything on your stomach that you don’t want people to see and with so many different design options, what’s not to love?



Save - Solid One-Piece (La Vie and Rose $19.99)

What's your fashion must-have for the summer?

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Summer Trip Tip: Book a Hotel With Hotwire.com

Paying full price on 4 star hotels is soooo last year...

This is actually a 5 star hotel and no, we didn't stay here. I just thought it was nice is all...

When we we booked our recent jaunt to Montreal I spent a lot of time researching hotels downtown, trying to find the right combination of clean, convenient and reasonably priced. Initially it looked like we would be lucky to get away with $150/night once the taxes were in. I thought we could find a better price without having to stay at a roach motel.

During one of my late night insomnia sessions, I stumbled across hotwire.com. They claimed we could stay at a 4 star hotel in downtown Montreal for $99/night. The catch is they don't tell you which hotel you will be staying at until AFTER you have already paid for it. I was nervous yet intrigued.

I called their 1800 number and asked the same paranoid questions they probably have to deal with every day: What if I don't like it? What kinds of hotels are on your list? Why can't you release the name prior to purchase? What if something happens and we don't go? They patiently told me that the service works by selling off unsold room inventory in a group of hotels. They can't tell you up front which hotel you will be staying at because they are not allowed to publish those deals: why would anyone agree to pay regular price if they saw they could save 50% on Hotwire?

I decided to take the plunge and risk our stay to these strangers. Immediately after the booking, the agent informed me we would be staying at the Delta Centre Ville. I of course went directly to Delta's website to see how much their regular rates were. $189. We were getting a $189 a night room for $99? It sounded too good to be true.

We arrived at our hotel with no problems. They had us booked in a room with two double beds (Hotwire can't guarantee the room type, just that there will be enough room for as many people as you are booking for), but reservations cheerily upgraded us to a room with a King size bed at no extra charge. What? Didn't they realize we were budget customers paying 50% less than everyone else? I was not expecting an upgrade on top of the great deal.

Our stay was excellent and there were no surprises. We were walking distance from everything, had free wi-fi in the lobby and a wonderfully comfortable king sized bed.

For once, what seems too good to be true is actually... true!

www.hotwire.com

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

5 Days in Montreal

Ah, Montreal!


There is something so charming about being in a place where you don’t understand the language very well. At least I think so. Between the incredible cuisine, the language and the stunning architecture, it felt like a little slice of Europe.

Last week Alex and I took a short road trip to meet with clients (to score you more awesome products of course!) and scout for locations for an upcoming episode of our new show.


Everyone has their own style of traveling and Alex and I are lucky that ours jive. We love to walk the city. We get a hotel located in the heart of the action and walk absolutely everywhere. We visited with some of my favorite beauty brands and clothing retailers in the mornings and spent the afternoons walking the city. That often meant at least 4 hours of walking a day, which was great for exercise and getting a feel for the city. We sat at outdoor cafés, enjoyed takeout lunches from Beniamino & co sitting on the grass at the waterfront or got rich cappuccinos to go from MBCo.




We carefully researched every restaurant we went to in advance to ensure we were trying the good spots. Le Cartet, Pane E Vino and Vallier did not disappoint. Salmon tartare infused with sesame oil, goat cheese encrusted with almonds and figs, lobster coleslaw or a veggie burger with a grilled Portobello mushroom in lieu of a patty served with brie arugula and a grilled beefstake tomato were some of my favorites.

Le Cartet

One objective I had for our trip was to purchase one "must have" quality item from Montreal. Typically when I travel I get caught up in vacation logic. Vacation logic says “Oh you only live once. Buy it anyway!” or “This dress is soooo Italy/New York/London Ontario” which leads to a bunch of poor purchases I often regret before my bags are unpacked. This time was going to be different.


Originally I hoped to find a bag but after perusing Ogilvy and Holt Renfrew I realized my dream of finding the perfect bag for under $300 was completely unrealistic.

Cafe Starbucks

Not willing to settle for a shoe store special, I put that search on hold and hunted for a sweater wrap for the cooler evenings that I could wear into the fall. This may not seem like a very exciting “must have” item, but what I found in BCBG is without a doubt. It’s hard to find a stylish wrap that looks equally good with jeans or a dress. Pashminas are great but don’t really cover your arms. Wrap sweaters can look dowdy or old man-ish.

BCBG Cardi wrap. Mine is black. Photo from BCBG.com

Made of silk and cashmere, this versatile cardi wrap sweater is excellent quality and can be worn in a number of ways. This would be what my stylist friend Giselle calls an “Investment Buy”, which is something you will wear often that is good quality and will last.

Another thing that really makes Montreal stand out is the impressive architecture. Modern bold shapes blend seamlessly with historic buildings. Interiors are sleek and polished, playing with space and light and contrasting textures. Le Locale is a restaurant that embodied the kind of high style restaurants that are commonplace in Montreal and was visually one of the best. It’s just too bad they forgot our food


Since when I travel I review absolutely everything, I also decided to risk a haircut. I did this in San Diego and was pleased with the results. My last few Toronto haircuts have been disappointing and I’ve had more bad hair days than good so this was the perfect time to try something new. Some local friends recommended a cut from Pal over at Spa McGill. Pal took more hair off my head than I knew I had and yet I still walked out with long hair. I have received more compliments on my hair with this cut than in a long time and the best part is that styling is now a breeze. Official review here!


I spotted my dream powder blue Vespa on the streets of Montreal

What will keep me coming back to Montreal is the joie de vivre. I have never met so many happy or helpful people. It is a big city vibe with a small town feel: no one is too busy or too important to smile or say hello and they all look damn good while doing it. Je suis en amour.

What are your favorite places in Montreal?

Monday, July 28, 2008

The First Kiss


I came across an article on MSN.com titled How to be a Better Kisser. Some of the points offer great advice, and it made me wish I knew a few of those moves back when kissing well really mattered. It's amazing how much a kiss can betray: your confidence, your expertise, and (yeesh) your personal hygiene. All in all, some pretty important factors in the eventual success or demise of your budding romance, no?

If there's one downside to being in a long-term relationship, it's not having the thrill of the First Kiss. The tingly feeling you get when you're moments away from liplock and your eyes are flirting shamelessly...

Unfortunately, there's always the risk that it could go sideways. My first boyfriend tried to slip me a little tongue early on, and not being ready for it I was a little grossed out. It kind of set the mood for the next few weeks before I broke things off. I couldn't get over it, even though I knew I was being immature. The fact that I was crushing on his friend probably didn't help matters.

My friend's first kiss didn't go so well either, but they wrote it off to needing more practice. Years later, they are married and two of the happiest people I know. So does it come down to smooching success or destiny?

The best way to help things along, shy of repeat visits to the broom closet during Spin the Bottle, is to prep your pucker before engaging the target.

*Whiten your teeth

Nothing turns me off more than coffee or nicotine-stained teeth. Shallow? Yes, I'll cop to that. Head over to the drugstore and buy a pack of Whitestrips, fella. Stop procrastinating with those semi-annual trips to the dentist too, while you're at it.

*Smooth, soft lips

While I don't mind the scratch of a sexy 5 o'clock shadow, my lips like a nice soft landing. I'm sure the feeling is mutual, so don't forget to exfoliate your lips gently each night with your toothbrush. Apply a natural lip balm (my personal fave is from Aveeno or Burt's Bees) in the hours leading up to your date to keep your lips moist and kissably soft.

*Opt for neutral breath

While I giggled along with everyone else during Adrien Brody's 2004 Oscar night breath freshener incident (a spoof on the previous year's on-stage snog with Halle Barry), it is totally uncool to whip out the breath mist moments before landing. Ensure your breath is neutral simply by avoiding spicy foods during dinner. When you excuse yourself to visit the restroom, swish your mouth thoroughly with water and double-check to make sure you don't have something lurking between your teeth.

*Save the stage makeup for Halloween

I have yet to meet the man who doesn't mind walking around with your lipstick smeared all over his mouth. Make certain the lipstick or gloss you choose that day is sheer and long wearing. Goofy as it sounds, practice kissing the back of your hand with your lips made up to see which of your products leave that telltale print. Flavored glosses are also a no-no. Just because you like tasting watermelon is no guarantee he will.

*Lose the gum

Not only is chewing ferociously on a stick of Dentyne vaguely classless, that gum-swapping thing you did in 8th grade isn't cool when you're all grown up. Find a moment to discreetly dispose of your cud, preferably well beforehand.

How was your first kiss? Does the success of a first kiss make a difference (even a small one) in how the relationship proceeds?

5 Summer Essentials for a Day on the Beach

....or, How to Catch a Hot Boy While Working on Your Summer Tan

by Anna Truong

The summer sun has finally decided to shine down on the usually rainy West Coast. Such an event is so rare and fortuitous, much like a pair of Manolo slingbacks on sale at 50% off at Holt Renfrew, that one must seize the opportunity when it is presented to her. But before I head off to Kits beach, I always make sure I take along the essentials with me.

* A hot bikini body

If you’ve been sticking with the Bikini Body-Ready Boot Camp since May like I… er, nevermind.

* A hot bathing suit

Set aside your insecurities and head down to the nearest bathing suit shop. With the multitude of style options available on the market ranging from skimpy triangle bikinis to more conservative tankinis, you’re bound to find one that you like. And with the right cut and colour, your bathing suit can hide a multitude of flaws. Personally, I like bathing suits with a sportier touch to them. They tend to keep everything in place where it should be. Also, while I may not have played a sport since mandatory PE class in grade 10, I look like I could be ready to pick up a friendly game of beach volleyball if the hottie on the blanket beside me asked.

* A book

Say no to study materials since there are too many distractions on the beach. Let’s face it, the only chemistry you’ll really be thinking about is the one between you and the hot boy. Nix the mystery crime thrillers too. You’ll be too wrapped up in the plot and will forget to reapply the sunscreen. Light reading with short chapters is preferable; I like reading chick lit myself – a guilty indulgence like a glazed doughnut or reruns of Gossip Girl. My personal recommendations: the Shopaholic series, and anything by Cecilia Ahern and Marian Keyes. Or why not try Men are like Mocha Lattes by Canadian author Lisa Summers? It’s smart, funny, and not hard to pick up again once you put it down.

* Sunscreen/sunblock

Naturally, you remembered to slather on the sunscreen before you headed out to the beach since it takes approximately 15 minutes for the lotion to be properly absorbed into your skin. However, don’t forget to take a bottle with you to the beach as well to reapply. I recommend Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Dry Touch Sunblock in SPF 30 or 45. It really is dry to the touch, not greasy like other formulas. I use this on both my body and my face. And since it’s relatively cheap, you won’t mind using a lot of it to ensure that you’ve achieved the full SPF rating. I also quite like Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Body Mist Sunblock SPF 70 which leaves a nice cooling sensation on your skin when you apply – a welcome under the blazing hot sun. Bonus: This is the perfect excuse to talk to the hot boy beside you. Ask if he’ll help you apply the sunblock to your back.

* Giant, dark sunglasses

Yes of course to protect my lovely peepers from the sun. And yes because they’re so timelessly chic (see Audrey Hepburn and Jackie O). But more importantly so no one can tell what or who you’re really looking at. Either the beautiful scenery of the mountains or the beautiful scenery of that hottie on the blanket to your right. Seriously, if you’re not going to talk to him, you might as well enjoy the view.

* A lip balm or gloss with SPF

Who knows if lip glosses really cause cancer? I don’t really want to be the one who finds out, so I always make sure I smother my lips in a coating of balm with SPF. My favourite is from Kiehl’s, but perhaps you want a little bit more colour on your lips. Try MAC’s new Tendertones which were released in June. They come in a variety of colours from baby pink to outrageous yellow/green. Plus they have an SPF 12 and smell like kiwis. In addition to the sun protection, these will keep your lips luscious and kissable – hopefully for later with hottie boy.

What are your essentials that you have to have in your beach bag?

Anna is a member of ChickAdvisor and beauty blogger. She requests you don’t ask why she refers to herself as Psychoexgirlfriend. Just know that it’s a long story best told over cocktails.

Friday, July 25, 2008

Summertime Distractions

Summer Vacation! For anyone bound to an academic calendar, this means a break from routine, a week at the cottage or beach, maybe a part-time job for the 16+ crowd, and certainly some downtime.

For stay-at-home moms, it means the beginning of our busy season. Our job description changes from household slave and part-time side show to full-time entertainment director and chauffeur (usually including other people's children).

"I'm bored!" exclaims one.

"Can Trevor sleep over?" begs the next.

"But I don't wanna play outside!" tearily protests another.

You know you've had enough when the sight of store shelves bursting with glossy new school supplies makes your day. By the time you flip the calendar page to August, your list of fabulous summer distractions is used up and declared to be lame and boring. And since plane tickets to Grandma's house for your rug rats are too expensive these days (although you did get that Pre-Approved $10,000 Line of Credit! letter from ShadySam's Finance Co. and are seriously considering taking them up on it), you can't ship 'em off for 2 weeks while you and hubby sip margaritas poolside.

While nothing will be good enough for your angry teenager, the younger set might be still persuaded to try a few more of your activities. This is the part where you call your friends (who, by the way, are no longer extending that invitation to "stop by our pool anytime!") and ask for suggestions. Since I'm in your boat, I'll give you a few of mine.

* Aquatic Playground - it's like a waterpark without the costly admission and risk of drowning. Many cities have them in their regional parks and are usually staffed with lifeguards. Stay clear of the wading pools, though. That's where the tots play, and well, you know what that means. These playgrounds usually have picnicking areas, so you can let the kids use their pent-up energy while you sip your frappaccino in peace.

* Art Center - check out the local cultural center, library, or children's museum. Many of them have fully stocked art studios where your kids can try their hand at all those crafts you won't allow at home. Most of the studios I've visited have instructors on hand to explain the activities and help Johnny make his papier maché Gila Monster. Just make sure you bring a full change of clothes for everyone for the ride home.

* Day Camps - if you can spare the cash, you can find a day camp for every interest. Check out the brochures at your local YMCA, Boy and Girl Scout office, cultural centers, and museums. For a free alternative, most neighborhood churches are running their Vacation Bible School programs. Although this is usually only a 5-evening program, you can probably find one happening nearly every week at different locations in your area. The programs typically include themed crafts, playtime, music, and Bible stories. Even if you are not religiously-minded, every child could use a lesson about loving others (especially their little brother).

* Movie Matinée - if you are brave enough, you might consider a kid-friendly movie. Many theaters now offer matinées that cater to younger patrons, with brighter lighting and lower soundtrack volume. Misbehavior is expected, so the mom in front of you will hardly notice Janey kicking her seat, as she's busy trying to stop Bobby from putting his gum in his sister's hair. Like I said: if you're brave enough.

Do you have any suggestions for our moms? Share them in the comments, please!

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Creating An Indoor Oasis

by Anna Martin

When summer arrives I finally unwind and become more appreciative of what nature has to offer: lakes, mountains, starry skies, you name it. Every year I wish summer would last just a little bit longer. Even though I can’t make the sunny weather stick around, I can make my home a space that reminds me of those relaxing summers days all year long.



Bright summer colours in relaxed textiles and whimsical prints can give a space an airiness and sense of fun. Check out these pillows by Vancouver based Ouno Design. The Ouno Pool and Beach Pillows are made in retro beach towel motifs and add tons of summer flare to a room. For your window treatments, use lightweight fabrics like the Ulla curtain from Anthropologie made in linen with embroidered floral accents. Add natural textures to your space with woven storage baskets, area rugs, potted bamboo, and a grass welcome mat at your door. See Pier One for its selection of woven baskets, I particularly like the Indigo Ghana Seagrass Basket priced at $35.00.


For paint color, use Ralph Lauren's Prussian Blue which gives a room a summer feel without being too cutesy. If blue isn't your thing then try a neutral like Calla Lilly or Daisy Field . For a bolder statement, try accenting one wall with photo wallpaper from Extratapete. Their summer collection offers enlarged photo prints of grasses and flowers that give add a strong graphic statement to your pad (also available through Style Garage).


If you want to include modern elements to your space without making your space cold or edgy, add contemporary pieces in vibrant colours - for wonderful designer reproductions check out Nood. Originally based in New Zealand, Nood has now opened two locations in B.C. (Burnaby and North Vancouver) and plan to open a third location in Vancouver’s Gastown. Finds at Nood include the ultra chic Eames molded side chair in red and yellow and the Poppi Vacuum Flask in delicious Koolaid-like colors.

With these touches of colour and texture, your space will come across breezy and light. The cold days of winter will be kept out and you will be left to enjoy your summer oasis all year long.

Anna lives in Vancouver with her hubby and is in the process of renovating a cute but very old little house. When she's not at Home Depot, she's directing marketing for a lingerie design company. She loves spotting trends and finding busy savvy entrepreneurs who are coming out with innovative and unique ideas.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

5 New Ways to Love Ice Cream

by Jacqueline To

Summertime is when we crave our favourite cold, creamy, sweet treat - ice cream. It’s a refreshing and delicious way to cool off in the sun. But instead of the standard Neapolitan double-scoop in a waffle cone this summer, why not try a unique and exciting, cultural twist on the old time favourite?

Mochi ice cream is a popular Japanese dessert made with rice starch and filled with various flavours of ice cream. The inspiration comes from mochi, a traditional Japanese rice cake made with glutinous rice and filled with red bean paste. The Lotte confectionery company first introduced mochi ice cream in local grocery stores in Japan, and now it's available everywhere. There are many different mochi ice cream flavours including vanilla, chocolate, green tea, mango, and even yam flavour! You can buy them at your local Asian grocery store for $2 to $4.

Pasta lovers, finish off your meal properly with Spaghetti Eis! This German dessert takes ice cream’s original nature and transforms it to resemble the appearance of spaghetti. Vanilla ice cream is pressed through a Spaetzle or potato press for the spaghetti base, then garnished with strawberry topping as tomato sauce and white chocolate shavings or coconut for parmesan cheese. You can easily make Spaghetti Eis at home and add your own flare to the recipe. Try vanilla sprinkles or icing sugar as parmesan cheese, use chocolate ice cream instead of vanilla, or include chocolate truffles for meatballs. Be creative!

The stimulating combination of hot, crunchy texture and cold ice cream melting on your tongue is what Deep Fried Ice Cream is famous for. Mexican and Asian restaurants often feature it in their dessert menu and occasionally you can find some at fairs or amusement parks. The Mexican variation of fried ice cream is covered with a cereal mix and batter while the Asian version is usually rolled in tempura bits. You can easily make this dessert at home, using a scoop of hard frozen ice cream dipped in egg, rolled in a crispy coating, and deep fried.

Relaxing at a café with a friend while sipping on a steamy cup of cappuccino is a favourite afternoon treat for most of us. Although a hot cup of coffee is great year-round, July’s hot weather calls for something creamy, cool, and caffeinated. Eiskaffee is a German chilled coffee blended with vanilla ice cream, then garnished with whipped cream, grated chocolate, and a wafer cookie. It's also perfect for guests because it looks delicious, but only takes seconds to make (click here for a simple and tasty recipe). Add a tall dessert spoon or a decorative stir stick for extra flair.

If you are a mom, you know kids can't get enough Popsicles during the summer, and making them yourself is a fun way to spend time with your kids. Ice cream pops are similar, except they are made with ice cream instead of juice. To make them at home you'll need a Popsicle mold, your favourite ice cream, and milk. Let the ice cream soften at room temperature, then mix 3 parts ice cream with 1 part milk, pour it into the mold and freeze. Voilà! You’ve created a frosty dessert everyone can enjoy. If you’re feeling adventurous you can add chopped nuts, chocolate, candy, or pieces of fruit. Try also dipping the frozen ice-cream pops into melted chocolate and rolling them in coconut flakes or chopped up almonds, then refreeze it.

These sugary confections are definitely a great way to start the summer off with a kick in your taste buds. Surprise your friends and family at your next party with mochi, Spaghetti Eis, deep fried ice-cream, Eiskaffee, or ice cream pops for dessert. Give your favourite summer treat a surprising and flavourful spin!

Jacqueline is a ChickAdvisor member and writer. She is currently studying Arts and Business at the University of Waterloo and is an editorial intern for Style at Home. She loves trying different types of food, shopping and catching up on lost sleep.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

The Boys of Summer: Fling, Flirtation or Forever After?

by Lisa Summers

Whether you’re out for margaritas with the girls, or playing volleyball at the beach, somehow the sunshine seems to bring out your sassy side, and that can mean plenty of flirting as the temperature rises. If a summer romance is your goal, then go ahead and get to know that cute lifeguard who’s so much fun to hang out with – and who has zero in common with you aside from loving the beach.

But if you’re someone who’s more interested in “happily ever after” than “happy to know you right now,” take a look at these tips for figuring out whether a guy is just a fling – or the real thing.

Signs that he’s only into you until September:

1. He religiously avoids any mention of plans after Labour Day.

2. You don’t know where he lives when he’s not at his family’s cottage.

3. His cell phone rings often and he asks the person on the other line, “Can I call you back?” (Are you sure you’re the only one he’s seeing?)

4. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends

5. When you ask if he’s interested in a relationship, he tells you that he just wants to have fun and “see where things go” or he says that he’s not looking for “anything serious right now, but that could change.” This is one of the oldest lines in the book! Believe me, the chances of things changing are as likely as the proverbial leopard changing its spots.

Signs that Your Summer Romance Could Blossom Past the Fall:

1. You have more in common than liking Cold Play. You share similar values, interests and goals in life.

2. He talks about the future, even casually. E.g., “Hey, too bad you can’t meet my sister. She’ll be back from Europe at Thanksgiving – you guys will totally hit it off!”

3. He introduces you to important people in his life, like friends and family members.

4. You have an argument – and you’re able to compromise and see each other’s point of view.

5. You know his first name, last name, birthday, where he works, and what his five-year plan is.

6. Your friends think he’s kinda cool too.

Newlywed Lisa Summers is a freelance writer for the Toronto Star and the author of "Men Are Like Mocha Lattes," a fictionalized memoir about her search for Mr. Right. Lisa has appeared on shows such as Canada AM and CBC to give relationship advice, and is also a repeat guest on Breakfast Television. She lives in southern Ontario where she practices law part-time and also pursues a creative career in writing, television and film.

Monday, July 21, 2008

Yum yum! Call my Face Kissed

by Megan Matthews

When few of us even knew what recycling was, Bob Macleod and Steve Byckiewicz were busy stirring up lotions and potions in an upstate NY farmhouse that would become Kiss My Face, the first natural and organic body care company. Today, with almost 200 products including organic facial care, shampoo and lotions distributed in 22 countries, it’s a long way from their first bar of natural olive oil soap.

After over 25 years of making our faces kissable, Kiss My Face is expanding to make the faces of little munchkins everywhere even more kissable than they already are. Kiss My Face Obsessively Natural Kids is yummy enough that I want to put it on a stick and call it a creamsicle. And you know what? You almost could. Created free of parabens (a nasty group of preservatives used in many cosmetics) and artificial colours, the products, with their orange-a-licious scent, including Bubble Wash, Self-Foaming Shampoo Body Wash and Detangler Cream are safe for little Sally and Bobby too.

While I don’t have kids, and I don’t have a lot of friends with kids beyond the age of infants, I do predict this would be a well-received gift for the Whole Foods shopping, OQOQO wearing, yoga loving yummy mommy. Ranging in price from $5 to $10, you won’t break the bank putting together a fun little bathtime basket.

So that covers the little ones, what about the rest of us? A recent discussion with girlfriends found us surmising that it’s often hard to find effective yet natural products out there that keep our skin looking like it did back in the day when pleated pants were hot (oh wait…they’re coming back aren’t they? Make a vow now to steer clear!).

Kiss My Face has done it again (did you know they seek out such crazy natural ingredients as Icelandic Moss, a key ingredient in their whitening toothpaste?) having just launched an olive softening balm, aptly named Olive My Body. Soothingly scented as a day on the shores of Santorini, we can use this balm anywhere! That’s right ladies…this magic pot of power made with such pure ingredients as Extra Virgin Olive Oil Fruit Butter, Vitamin E, Grapefruit Peel Oil, Meadow Foam Seed Oil (no idea either), and Organic Beeswax softened the pesky skin on my heel that sandal season wreaks havoc on, the stubborn elbow area, and lips chapped from the sea and sun. Now that’s one powerful little pot of nature!

Check out Kiss My Face on your next trip to Loblaws or Whole Foods. And a hot tip for you….watch for the Spiced Cranberry and Vanilla scented holiday line by Kiss My Face coming later this year, which brought me from Santorini to the snow covered Swiss Alps with one simple sniff. Mmmmm.

Megan’s chameleon-like nature is best described through shoes: black pointy heels at work, white Converse sneaks for weekend, and super sassy stilettos in any colour for night! A speed shopper, world traveller and social butterfly, this 28-year-old is a PR girl by day, and a ChickAdvisor writer...well, whenever they need her, and she loves the opportunity to do what we girls do best - talk about the world of products, services and activities designed just for us!

Friday, July 18, 2008

Weekend Movie Recommendation: Casablanca

The pickin's are a little slim these days at my neighborhood Movie Village. There's something so frustrating about cruising the aisles...

Seen it, seen it, seen it...

Every so often, I need to watch a classic. Back before CGI characters and elaborate special effects took the place of quality acting and moving storylines - 'ah yes!' You exclaim. No longer are we satisfied with watching Will Smith blow stuff up (although we like watching him), or renting the fifty-seventh flick starring the starlet-du-jour. Gets kinda old, n'est-ce pas?

On deck for tonight is that one classic everyone should see at least once: Casablanca. It hits on every note: exotic locales, imminent danger, a spurned lover, and a will-they-or-won't-they climax. In other words, like pretty much every other movie on the shelf but without all the flimflam that the popcorn flicks of today are spouting.

For a movie and culture buff, you'll also enjoy the iconic lines that 65 years later are still quoted more often than they really should (and I won't spoil it by telling you which ones those are...).

Here's a preview...



Other retro picks: An Affair To Remember and Sabrina. Just don't expect your dude to stick around and watch it with you ;)

Thursday, July 17, 2008

ChickAdvisor in Canadian Business!


We are thrilled with the coverage in Canadian Business today! The writer had been following us for about 6 months watching our progress and today the article has finally gone live and we think it's great!

Check it out!

Fat vs. Thin


Jill Clark and the gang at Twenty Something had me on another episode, which is online now. The topic is a debate near and dear to every woman's heart: Fat vs. Thin. The motivation behind this episode was some really terrible comments made by a viewer who called the TS girls fat and told them they needed to lose weight. Instead of crying into their martinis, the girls tackled the topic head on.

Obviously this is a sore topic for many and it goes both ways. A skinny girl is likely to get just as many comments about their weight as a heavier one.

Oh you're too skinny! Someone give that girl a burger! Turn sideways and you'll disappear...

Hmmm... are those supposed to be taken as compliments just because you wish you were skinny? My upper body is quite small and even a bit bony and there is nothing I can do about it. If I gain weight it all goes to my hips and you will still be able to see my ribs in a few places. Should I feel bad about myself because of something I can't control?

The one thing in common is that the comments stem from the insecurities of the other person. If you are a happy self assured person, insulting a heavier person or someone thiner than yourself would be out of the question. It wouldn't even be on your radar. You would be too busy noticing how great the other person is to judge them for something they may not have much control over. Genuine concern for someone you suspect to be anorexic or dangerously obese is a different matter.

I highly recommend you check out the episode and share your thoughts. Have you been insulted for being too fat or too thin?

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

ChickAdvisor Featured on Media in Canada

We are thrilled with the great coverage today in Media in Canada about our new video series. Check it out here.

Free Shipping With Well.ca

Here's one more great reason to shop online! Well.ca is a Canadian company from Guelph, Ontario that sells drugstore products at great prices. They are also friends and affiliates of ours. Well.ca carries everything from makeup and skincare to vitamins, pharmaceutical products and condoms.

Shipping is normally $3 within Canada, but right now they are offering free shipping! No strings attached. Since many of their prices are less than you would pay in the drugstore this is an obvious no brainer.

The Hidden Dangers of a Self Breast Exam?

Are you one of those women who isn't quite comfortable giving 'the girls' their monthly once-over? This might be your lucky day.

The latest research shows that regular breast self-examinations may actually do more harm than good, according to MSNBC Health. Depending on your breast tissue and the time of the month natural variations can worry you needlessly, or on the flip side make you less cautious if you're prone to benign cysts anyway.

In fact, overly aggressive treatment (eg. surgeries) of what ultimately prove to be harmless growths can do more harm than good, such as when women are left with disfiguring scars or medical complications. Increasingly, patients are taking the initiative and pushing for medical procedures when doctors turn reluctant . Is this good or bad?

So when does a self exam still make sense? I for one am confused. If you have a family history of breast cancer, it would seem foolish not to check yourself regularly. But according to the American Breast Cancer foundation, less than 30% of all cases can be traced back to typical risk factors. Their opinion continues to support self exams.

I have to wonder if choosing to skip them just because it might lead me to question my doctor's diagnosis is kind of like refusing to slow down on the interstate because of road conditions where the posted speed limit clearly states I may proceed at 70 mph. Riiiiiiight...

What would you do? Do you trust the Doc's opinion more or less than your own? (heck, if it was McDreamy or Greg House, I'd let him check me every time ;)




After a somber topic like this we all need a little eye candy, no?

CoverGirl Gotta Have It Summer Beauty



CoverGirl's new "Gotta Have It" colours are like candy and they are encouraging us to play. The new collection features bright yellow, gold, shocking shades of blue and deep purple.


This summer we are encouraged to wear whatever we want and have some fun with it! The reasonable price point makes it easy to experiment without too much of a risk. The trick is in applying them correctly.


Celebrity makeup artist, Paul Venoit explained that the technology that goes into the products is better than ever and allows them to create competitive products for less. These eyeshadows are more pigmented so you don't need to apply as much to see dramatic results.


I have found that their matte colours are better than the shimmery ones for staying power, but the shimmery gold and orange look great for a more subtle summery look. The Purple Pop packs some serious punch (sorry, couldn't resist!) and more than a few beauty editors agreed it was the best of the bunch.



The Amazement lipglosses with Crest toothpaste were in my opinion a little much. While the idea of a lipgloss freshening my breath is appealing, I felt like I was licking toothpaste all evening, which was odd.

Have you tried any of these products? What did you think?

Monday, July 14, 2008

Chocolate Walnut Lemon Biscotti


This biscotti recipe is perfect for dipping. Make a frothy cappuccino, sit on your patio and take a moment of me time. The recipe is from my sister, who is an incredible baker. It's easy and relatively quick. Here's what you'll need:

Mixing Bowl #1:
1 3/4 cup Flour
2 tsp Baking powder
3/4 cup Whole walnuts (or almonds)
1/2 cup Semi-sweet chocolate chips

Mixing Bowl #2:
2 Eggs
3/4 cup Sugar
1/3 cup Butter
2 tsp Vanilla
1/2 tsp Almond extract
1 1/2 tsp Lemon rind (or orange)

1 Egg white

Directions:

* After mixing each bowl individually, combine them together. Leave the egg white separate.

* Form the dough into 2 balls.

* Sprinkle flour on the counter and roll each ball into a log.

* Brush each log with egg white

* Bake @ 350 F for 20 minutes

* Cool for 5 minutes, cut diagonally, turn the pieces on their side and bake for 20 minutes. They should be golden.

* Try not to eat them all in one sitting...

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Weekend Movie Recommendation: Wall-E

Pixar's latest tale about a little robot taxed with cleaning up the world too polluted for humans is part eco-awareness, part social commentary, and all cute fun.

I took my daughter to see it last night, thinking it was another kiddie movie that I'd have to suffer through but I was pleasantly surprised. The animation is really well done and the character development is thorough. I found myself laughing out loud one minute and grinning stupidly at the sweet 'n sappy scenes the next. It finds that great balance between being safe enough for all ages to watch, but with plenty of nuances and subtle humor for adults.

Wall-E's search for meaning and love will charm and amuse you. It's in theaters now.



Have you seen it? What did you think?

Thursday, July 10, 2008

How I Survived Young Motherhood

When I told my friends I was pregnant at age 23, they stared at me in horror.

When I told my mom, she cried that she was too young to be a grandma.

When I told my husband, he blanched but recovered quickly, puffed up his chest and made general, obnoxious comments about his manliness.

When I told my grandmothers, they said it was about time!

We weren't planning this, but our prevention methods were lackluster at best. I must have forgotten the Pill more often than I actually took it. Thus, this result was unexpected but hardly unforeseeable. We worried that we "weren't ready" to be parents. We worried about our maturity, our financial security, the plans we had made, and yes, I worried about childbirth.

Sound familiar?

Years later, I look back and smile. In that time, we accomplished more than I thought possible. We studied in two different countries, finishing our respective bachelor degrees a little behind schedule but with good grades and great prospects. My husband is a Director at his current job, and baby #3 is ready for potty training. Our family is happy, healthy, and self-reliant.

The craziness of parenthood is all they say and more. We only frequent McDonald's and Applebee's restaurants (the latter for fine dining!), shop in bulk at Costco, our house is never more than 60% clean, and the washing machine runs nonstop.

On the other hand, the rewards of such an investment are immediate and often overwhelming. Little wet kissies, scrawly Valentines and Mother's Day cards, picnics packed by my oldest consisting mainly of Cinnamon Toast Crunch and drink pouches, and making someone's day just by walking into a room - so much better than dealing with an arrogant boss or whiny customers any day!

The most important thing I learned was this unattainable ideal of unconditional love. You can roar at your kids one minute and they forgive you in the next, as you instantly forget what made you so angry in the first place. The feeling that you are the most important, most needed person in the world is something you can't get from your partner.

I think the bottom line is, no one is truly ready for parenthood. If you wait until you are financially set and mature enough, you may not have the energy to keep up. If you have kids early, you will experience some growing pains. There is no one right way to do it.

If this adventure comes prematurely for you, there are a few basic things I've learned along the way:

~Connect with other young moms. Everyone needs a sympathetic ear and a convenient playmate for Junior.

~Connect with older moms. Their experience is worth its weight in gold and their teenage daughters are eager for babysitting gigs.

~Take 'Me' time, take date time. Your relationship with your husband/partner has enormous influence over your mood and ability to parent.

~Lower your workload expectations. Buy a few Stouffer's lasagnas and accept the fact that your laundry is 2 weeks behind schedule. I have a Closet of Shame where I stuff things I don't have time to deal with - boxes of photos to be sorted, items to donate to Goodwill, old paperwork to be shredded, and toys to be SuperGlued.

~Lower your personal expectations. Get a low maintenance haircut, focus on 2 or 3 makeup essentials, simplify your wardrobe (you can always glam up with a few accessories), and shave only when necessary. When you go out with the girls or your hubby, have your sitter come an hour early so you can pamper yourself properly.

~Lower your financial expectations. If you are struggling to pay for groceries and rent, now is not the time for retirement planning. I may get some flack for this, but immediate needs outweigh those 40 years in the future. Curb your spending on frivolous items and stick to a budget, but also allow for the occasional *reasonable* splurge.

Have you lived this? What got you through those days? Share your stories and tips in the comments!

How to Sign up for the Product Review Club

We have stream lined the process a bit by creating an online survey. It can be accessed here. Please note you must be a ChickAdvisor member and you have to have added at least 5 reviews on your own to be considered for these offers. We have a promotion going on with pHisoderm right now and many more goodies on the way. Good luck!

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Do You Dare Colour Your Own Hair?


Not meaning to sound like a diva but I do not colour my own hair. That is a job reserved for professionals who know what they are doing. When it comes to DIY things like eyebrow threading, bikini waxing, nails, hair colouring and applying false eyelashes, I am completely inept.

When I received a kit of Garnier Nutrisse Cream from the peeps at Garnier at an event recently, I thought, yeaaaaa.... that's not gonna happen. I get my hair coloured/highlighted professionally every 5 weeks because I have a lot of premature grays and my hair grows really fast. Don't hate. I get a LOT of gray. Hint: here I am with my Mom (who is 50).

Mom, the natural & me, the bottle brunette (post DIY with Garnier Nutrisse)

Don't get me wrong, my mother is a babe and I'm thrilled with her genetics. Just not so hot on inheriting the grays. I've been struggling with them since I was 18 and discovered early on I have zero skill at doing my own hair. Previous attempts have been disastrous. I'll never forget an incident where my MIL came to visit via the train after I had just done my own hair and the first words out of her mouth were, "Ali your hair looks terrible!" She meant well, she's just a very honest woman. My hair was blotchy, uneven and way too dark. Since that day I vowed I would never go it alone again.

But... going to the salon that often is really expensive. So I decided to risk it. I used it just on the roots so that evidence of screwing up would be minimal. The results turned out amazing. There was no difference in colour between my roots and the rest of my hair, except those irritating sparkling grays were gone and my hair was considerably shinier and softer. I kept the colour on for the minimal amount of time and found that it lasted really well until my next regular hair appointment. Truffle, #50 blended so well it looked like a professional job.

I plan on using this again between hair colourings so I can stretch my salon visits to every 2 months instead. It's great for in between visits but would work just as well as an all-over all the time hair colour.

Do you colour your own hair, or do you leave it to the professionals?

The Kitchen: Thursday Free Drinks for Chicks


Here's something fresh to do on a Thursday night: The Kitchen on West Queen West serves free drinks to the Ladies every Thursday night from 9-11pm. Serious! Their sangria is extraordinary, made with fresh squeezed orange juice. It is alone worth a visit. They have a lovely patio too, which is open until 10pm and a live DJ. We'd be silly not to take them up on this, no?

The Kitchen is open for lunch, dinner and Sunday brunch. We'll definitely be back to, er, verify this great deal and to try the food so we can give it a good and proper review.

Have you been to The Kitchen? Add your review.


Monday, July 7, 2008

Product Review Club: pHisoderm

Ready to try a new facial cleanser? Heck, why not a body wash too?

The peeps at pHisoderm are generously offering 20 members from our Product Review Club both full sized products in exchange for your reviews on ChickAdvisor! We've been testing them too and so far, so good!

Here's what pHisoderm has to say about these products:

"For over 60 years pHisoderm has created skin care products that contain natural ingredients to clean the most sensitive skin. Developed by Dermatologists, pHisoderm cleansers are hypo-allergenic and pH balanced to prevent moisture loss and drying. pHisoderm products are gentle enough for the most sensitive skin."

pHisoderm Daily Facial Cleanser for Dry to Normal skin

Facial Cleanser MSRP: $12.99

Product Info:
*Enriched formula that is soap and fragrance free.
*Gently removes dirt, oil and makeup while maintaining your skin’s correct moisture balance.

Our take:
*Great for sensitive skin.
*Light cream type formula ideal for dry - normal skin. My skin is oily - normal but so far, no issues.
*You won't run out for a loooong time!

pHisoderm Body Wash
Body Wash MSRP: $7.99


Product Info:
* Gently cleans and exfoliates skin without drying.
* Contains aloe, vitamin E, Chamomile and is alcohol and oil free.

Our take:
*It has a nice, subtle fresh scent.
*It does not irritate the skin.


www.phisoderm.ca

Want 'em?
20 members from our Product Review Club will receive both full sized products to keep and review on ChickAdvisor within 14 days. If you are signed up you will receive an email with further instructions.

Not signed up for the Product Review Club yet? It's free and open to all registered ChickAdvisor members :) Find out more.

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July 7 Newsletter: July Freebies & A chance to appear on our new Show!

Happy Summer, Everyone!

This newsletter is coming at you from an outdoor cafe on the waterfront. Summer living is truly the best. While some people love the 4 season experience, I live for the summer. My apartment is cleaner, my skin is clearer and I get to wear hats. Lately I am all about the hat and want to see them make a serious comeback.

Joy & Ali bring the hat back

Whatever you are doing this July, we wish you a good one. Remember to keep checking in on ChickAdvisor as we have some awesome things in the works that you will be sorry to miss!

xoxo,

Ali & The ChickAdvisor Team

New summer Product Review Club Offers
We have some exciting new goodies coming your way this summer. Starting this week look out for a brand new Product Review Club offer.
20 of you will be getting 2 full sized products each! Hint: It’s a facial cleanser and a bodywash. Keep an eye on the blog and in our forum for details. Want to know more about the Product Review Club? Keep reading

So You Think You’re a Fashionista?
This Saturday: Appear on our new video series!


If you’ve been a member for awhile, you’ve probably seen our pilot series last year called “Where’d You Get That?” where we interview well dressed strangers about their style. This year we have partnered with Rogers Media to bring you another new original series featuring the wisdom of strangers based on some of the juicy topics discussed in our forums called ChickChat TV!

This Saturday July 12th we are filming at the Toronto Eaton Center between 11am and 6pm and are looking for those of you who consider yourselves to be Fashionistas. Wear your hottest, most stylish duds, bring your friends and come find us to be interviewed for the show. We will be roving around the Eaton Center but should be easy enough to spot. Just come and say hello and tell us you want to be on the show. Interviews take about 5 minutes and we promise it will be fun!


Wanted: Writers and Contributors
Help us grow! We are looking for more writers and contributors to bring in some fresh new content, attend fabulous events and review great new products.

Backstage at L'Oreal Fashion Week

If you live in Toronto, Ottawa, Winnipeg, Vancouver, New York, Montreal, Los Angeles, San Fransisco, Boston or Chicago, London (UK) or another major city in North America that is represented on ChickAdvisor we want to talk to you. Ideal candidates are members already using ChickAdvisor who like to write and schmooze. Send us an email with a link to your profile and a writing sample.

New Design launching soon!
Prettier, flirtier and more functionality...


We told you earlier we are cooking up something good. It will be launching very soon this summer and promises to be better than ever! Like our new logo? Stay tuned…

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Sunday, July 6, 2008

Hotlist Widgets Temporarily Disabled

Those of you with hotlists, please note we are temporarily disabling them while they get a make-over. We'll let you know here when they are ready again!

Lipstick Lifestyle


Our very own Beauty Expert, Ellen has launched a new sister site to her popular beauty blog, Lipstick Powder 'N Paint. Lipstick Lifestyle is written in a Daily Candy/Sweet Spot tone and covers Fashion, House and Home, Travel and more! It's too cute and we think you'll love it.

Check it out!

http://lipsticklifestyle.com/
http://lipstickpowdernpaint.com/

Saturday, July 5, 2008

Gettin' Flack for being a Girl

Every so often, we get some eloquent comment about our representation of women.

And by eloquent, I mean a chip-on-the-shoulder bitchslap.



You know-- those times when our tone echoes more Joy Behar and less Katie Couric. Feisty, just-for-the-helluvit fun, tongue-in-cheek hyperbole primarily meant to bring a chuckle to your day or start a great conversation. Like all the other bloggers on the planet.

Admittedly, we never write a post that does not in some way convey our true feelings on the matter. These opinions are, we assume, shared by most women and are intended to be within the context of a modern woman's mindset.

Case in point:

1. A girl reserves the right to be treated to dinner on occasion without the feminists getting militant about it.

2. A girl reserves the right to inform others about proper street etiquette, especially when it infringes on our modern ideas of "don't hork on my shoe, dumbass!".

3. Or in the case of a (deleted) comment on our article comparing sunless tanners, where one verbose reader damned me to hell because of the color of my skin.


As if we don't have plenty of caricatures on the tube. I suppose that such extreme characters are completely offensive to the modern woman, even though they represent parts of ourselves. We are women, and it's our right to be strong, smart, and adventurous as much as sexual, demanding, playful, and if we feel so inclined here and there, a wee bit shallow.

Don't hate us 'cuz we're trying to be funny or provocative or ironic. Do you think we chose the name for our site because we see ourselves as bimbos waiting to fall into the arms of the nearest loser willing to buy us a Long Island Iced Tea?

You underestimate us greatly if you think us antifeminist. If anything, we are trying to push an agenda of allowing a woman to be unique. Let us, on occasion, be the mom who sets out milk 'n cookies for our kids when they step off the school bus. Let us be the girl who likes to be pretty and stylish. Let us be the career woman who sets aside family plans for a successful, fulfilling future.

It's all good.

Let's talk about this, not let it divide us. We're women, with all the wonderful complexity that frustrates as much as it intrigues.

Thanks to all you "anonymous" contributors. We wouldn't know how to conduct ourselves without you. And for future reference, anonymous bitchslaps will no longer be published here.

Toronto: Fresh Wednesdays and Tasty Thursdays

Got this little tidbit in my inbox and thought it was worth sharing...

Fresh Wednesdays and Tasty Thursdays at Nathan Phillips Square offer the perfect summer lunchtime combination - delicious food at great prices and free noon hour concerts featuring blues, jazz, world, roots and reggae from July 9 to August 28.

Ontario Farmers will provide an array of crisp vegetables, juicy fruits, pastries, fresh-cut flowers and more at the Farmers' Market, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

Fresh Wednesdays - concerts:
July 9 Suzie Vinnick (roots and blues)
July 16 Nine-Mile (acoustic rock duo)
July 23 Melissa Larkin (folk rock)
July 30 Silk Road Duo (classical Chinese and world fusion)
August 6 Shawna Caspi (indie folk)
August 13 Tannis Slimmon (roots)
August 20 Carey West (singer songwriter)
August 27 Lindsay Ferguson (acoustic rock)

Tasty Thursdays features a variety of Toronto restaurants bringing their international cuisine to the square for $5 or less. Lunch runs from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m., from July 10 to August 28.

Tasty Thursdays - concerts:
July 10 Dane Hartsell (pop, rock and soul)
July 17 The Marigolds (contemporary folk roots trio)
July 24 Alex Cuba (pop-soul Cuban)
July 31 Korexion (Juno award-winning Reggae group)
August 7 The Café Olé (latin jazz)
August 14 Toronto Blues Society New Talent Search
August 21 Liam Titcomb (pop/rock/blues)
August 28 Chris Bottomley's Brainfudge (funk)

For more info: http://www.toronto.ca/special_events

Friday, July 4, 2008

Happy Independence Day, from the Land of the Free

What does Independence Day mean to you?

As a Canadian, I don't share the same history as my neighbors here south of the border. I've had some friends ask me: "Y'all are still with England?" They shake their heads in disbelief. Freedom-- in all its forms is perhaps THE cornerstone of American pride. Or so it looks to these northern eyes.

~Freedom from foreign rulers
~Freedom of speech and religion
~Freedom to tote around a deadly weapon (ok, so I got a little swept away by Bowling for Columbine)
~Freedom to set your past behind you and make something of yourself - maybe even the next President of the U.S.

(Some freedoms are still not legislatively granted, but I won't get into such contentious topics here.)

I've lived in Europe, where an unspoken class system often prevails. The son of a welder will follow in his father's footsteps more often than not. Some of my acquaintances even suggested they would not attend university because it would exceed their parents' achievements. Real estate is prohibitively expensive; home ownership or a business startup is mostly out of reach for many.

I've lived in Canada, where we have many freedoms and privileges but have less direct control over our government. We have the freedom of free health care, but in some cases not the freedom to seek medical treatment across the border when local waiting lists are intolerably long.

In my family is living memory of a peril-of-death flight across Russia, eastern and central Europe, and ultimately to the shores of Nova Scotia and safety. Many uncles, grandfathers, and brothers were torn away from family to slave in Siberian forest camps where they died. Many pacifist settlers were forced into army duty, then mocked by fellow soldiers for their beliefs.

I think I have a pretty good idea of what freedom means. I wish the world had more of it. Many people have criticized America for attempting to bring freedom to other parts of the world... while their own governments spend years in committee meetings accomplishing little more than strongly worded speeches. Has it been worth the sacrifice? We'll only find out in the years to come.

Now the definition of freedom has changed. Americans don't have to worry about a distant king or slavery or indentured servitude. The new lords are found in Hollywood, at the pump, on Wall Street, and from the threats of extremism abroad and at home. Perhaps we should free ourselves with the same fervor we claim to free others.

This would require a major rethink and turnover of the ways we do business, health, education, foreign policy, and environmental stewardship. But if there's one thing Americans know how to do, it is to reinvent themselves, shake off the injustice of the past and push ahead to a better future.

Anything is possible in this country. Even a New Kids On The Block comeback :S

What do you think makes your country great? If you were The Man for a day, what is the one thing you'd change?

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Top 10 Most Commented ChickLit Posts


We discuss a wide variety of topics on this blog ranging from finances to fashion, beauty and buns (of steel). Some posts spark a lot of discussion and then we know we're on the right track. Others... not so much. Here are some of the posts you enjoyed talking about the most (in no particular order)...

Pet Peeve: Princess Crowns

Navigating the World of Alternative Medicine

ChickBeauty 101 Bright Hues for Spring...

ChickBeauty 101 Pretty in Pink or Sexy and Sultry

Ho! Ho!... No?

Career Satisfaction: Are you there yet?

Check, Mate! Who should pay for the first date

Lalala Human Steps

Would you wear the Prada Turban?

How Far do you walk in High heels?

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Pet Peeve: How to Walk Beside a Lady


I feel like this public service announcement is necessary for the masses to hear. I am tired of being pushed around on the sidewalk. Men, take note!

5. Never walk more than 2 abreast. There is nothing I detest more than getting stuck behind a pack of inconsiderates who fan out to form an impenetrable line of 4 abreast. The thoughtless wonders who generally do this are also walking at a tourist's pace so it is impossible the rest of us to get to work in time! The world is NOT your oyster! Move over or walk behind each other!

4. Whistling, cat calling and leering are anything but sexy. While you may think that shouting out brilliant things like, "Hey Baby!" or "Got some fries with that shake?" will make us want to stop, turn around and make mad love to you, you are a dumbass. The same goes with leering.

3. Do the math. If you could be our Grandfather, trust! It isn't going to happen! Keep your skeevy eyes in their sockets. While you imagine yourself to be desirable with your horrible breath, your wild eyes and your geriatric outfit, you aren't. And your wife probably doesn't find your behavior sexy either.

2. Don't spit. What foul thing is in your mouth that you need to hork in public? Have you considered flossing or brushing your teeth? Are you aware of the terrible noise you make when you spit?

And finally...

1. Street grates are extremely hazardous for the heeled woman. We get stuck in them and they ruin perfectly good shoes. If you are walking towards us or beside us and see we are wearing high heels, move the hell over! You can walk your flat footed feet on the grate with no issues.


Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Movie Preview - Quantum of Solace

The latest Bond movie is set to hit theaters this fall, and I must admit that my husband will not need to twist my arm on this one.

While my enthusiasm for the Bond franchise has been steadily declining since Sean turned in his license to kill, my husband used his "Sense & Sensibility" get-out-of-jail-free card to lure me into the nearest big screen for "Casino Royale".

I may even have to say Daniel Craig is the best Bond ever. See you opening night, 007!

Whose your favorite Bond?

Have a Little National Pride


We're all pretty lucky to be living in Canada and the USA. It's too easy to take life here for granted. I was reminded of this recently when I watched a good friend of ours at a swearing in ceremony to become a Canadian citizen.

After moving to Toronto from Buenos Aires, Argentina 4 years ago, Julio worked a series of odd jobs - whatever it took to pay the bills, to hone his language skills and start his own business. Though he came armed with a degree and a strong skill set, he did everything from working as a mover to teaching tango lessons several times a week to make ends meet. In the mere 4 years since he moved here, his company has grown substantially to the point where he is now quite successful and has made many new friends.

One evening a couple of weeks ago, Julio was over for a drink and casually mentioned he had to get up early the next morning for the swearing in ceremony to become a Canadian. He asked to borrow a Bible and said he couldn't wait because tomorrow was going to be the best day of his life. We offered to come and support him and he said he would be honored if we came.

The ceremony itself was quite hilarious and I felt kind of bad that I laughed as much as I did. A militant aging Chinese woman with a strong accent barked orders at the roomful of citizens to be and their guests as her microphone cut in and out losing much of what she said. What we could hear was a lot of repetition about how each of them would walk to the front of the room to receive their "sher-tificate" from the judge followed by a singing of the national anthem. She warned them that she would be watching them and if anyone wasn't singing, in both French and English, they would be asked to stay behind. (???)

I looked around the room and could see others found this humorous too. But Julio had such a look of quiet pride, excited for the moment he would be pronounced a Canadian citizen and receive his very own sher-tificate.

The Judge entered the room and the Master of Ceremonies (or whatever her title was) started on with her rehearsed speech then stopped suddenly and stage whispered to the Judge "I forgot to mention the part about how these people are all applying to be citizens!" The room tittered. She then composed herself and stated the obvious.


A volunteer from the ROM was next to deliver an inspiring speech about the many galleries and museums in the city that were extending a gift of one year free pass to Canada's newest citizens. She was nervous and her written speech shook in her hands as she excitedly bobbed her bowl cut hair back and forth, face flushed.

When it came time for the oath I was enjoying myself watching these characters so tremendously I almost felt bad. While millions of people dream of living in Canada or the USA, this is a reality for us that we often think nothing of.

The applicants stood and solemnly swore their oath. Julio was beaming. He accepted his certificate from the Judge and posed in front of the flag for pictures. He had tears in his eyes. He was so grateful to be accepted into a country I admit I often take too much for granted.

When Alex and I drove home afterwards we agreed how lucky we are to live here. Just seeing how much it meant to Julio and his colleagues was humbling and a great reminder of how blessed we are. I've never been prouder to be a Canadian than I am now.